Tears, Fears and Vulnerabilities as a Mother and Business Owner


Ever get that feeling that you’re spinning your wheels as you look at your to-do list and realise it’s more like a thesis? You’re adding more things to do but you’re not ticking off what’s already on the list quickly enough, so the list is getting longer and longer. So, when it feels like there isn’t enough time in the day to do what you need to do and you’re not meeting the high expectations you’ve placed on yourself, what do you say to yourself? Do you come from a loving place where you pat yourself on the back for at least taking a step even if it’s a small one? Or are you more likely to criticise yourself – affirming that you’re not good enough to do anything and that by not meeting those expectations, you’re failing?
Stop running away from your fears. Face them. Challenge them. Assert yourself. Then the fears will be the ones running away.

In this episode of the segment, Ladies Let’s Get Real, I share my closest fears when it comes to not fulfilling the goals I have for myself, particularly as a Mother and Business Owner. It wasn’t an easy one to film – in fact, at one point, I let out a few tears, simply because I was so afraid of what ‘not being able to fulfill my goals in time’ actually symbolises.

But this is the beauty of talking it out. With my special guest, Samantha Ember by my side, we were able to move through the fear and redefine what your worst fears can ACTUALLY do for you. It’s a fresh new way of looking at fears and vulnerabilities.

So, if your to-do list is pretty hectic and you’re feeling guilty and fearful that you’re not doing enough (even though you’re working your arse off!) AND you really want a productive way of moving through these times with ease instead of fear, then this episode is for you. You’re going to learn:

  • What my own personal fears are when it comes to not being able to fulfill my goals within an expected time frame and how I manage them, so they don’t stop me from getting to where I want to be
  • What Samantha says to herself at times when she’s not meeting her goals as quickly as she’d like
  • How you can identify where your worst fears came from
  • How to identify your ancestral karma and ensure that you won’t be repeating it (
  • The 2 vital steps to help you heal your past in a way that brings you empowerment
Don’t delay watching this episode because you’re too busy – use some time to tune in; you’ll be glad you did.

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When you’ve grabbed some tissues to wipe the tears from the grief of realising your own fears (remember, tears are good!), then I’d love to hear from you.

Are you willing to acknowledge and share your greatest fear? (Because bringing light to the dark parts of ourselves where fears lie is the best way to set them free)

What small change are you going to make to break that fear down so there’s room for more compassion and self-love?

Share your insights in the comments section below! 

The more detail you share, the better you’ll help others who can relate to you (and no doubt will be relieved that they’re not the only ones feeling or experiencing a similar thing). Plus – you may even form a deep connection with someone as like-minded as you.

Important: We’d love to read about your thoughts and ideas but any links to other posts, websites, videos etc, or promotional material will be removed (we want to stay away from spam…and we don’t mean the canned ham variety).


Thanks so much for watching and taking part in our community discussion!

Remember, we ALL have fears – even the people that come across as having it all worked out. The difference is, these people have made the commitment to go beyond the fears and vulnerabilities and not let those things define them. It’s easy to give in to the fears and it’s much harder to face them, but when you do, fear will run and you’ll be free.

If you’re inspired to take action and free yourself from the unnecessary fears, and you want others to join you on your love-filled mission (because this world could do with a dose of love), then please share this.

With love and gratitude, 

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